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Lesbian Freedom

Lesbian Freedom and Lesbian Visibility is very important.

Healthy Lesbians with healthy lives should be kind and reach out to those they can that does not impact their life in a negative way. For example, I was in Las Vegas a few years back I was alone, I went to a show and I seen a lesbian couple in line, looked like a long term couple to me, i felt so out of place and they snubbed me. I tried to catch their eye for a hello but no go. So if you see other lesbians out there don't assume they are a threat SAY HELLO....

Same Sex Marriage

Same Sex Marriage
Terri Miller, Ed.D., a high school administrator, and Cindy Simms, a ceramic artist, make up one of many longtime gay and lesbian couples who offer a shining example of love and commitment as we fight for marriage equality. Together 35 years, they knew early on it was for keeps. Terri tells of the beginning of their relationship: "Cindy and I met when I was 25 and she was 22. She was a warm, personable and beautiful young woman. I was skinny and shy. We were attracted to each other immediately. After meeting and visiting each other for about a week in 1971… We knew we would be spending the rest of our lives together."
The couple has designated a durable power of attorney for health care and a living trust to afford each other some protection to their joint assets and properties as they approach their golden years. Without the protection that marriage affords, couples can be left to face the possibility that, in the unfortunate case of a tragedy, their loved one will be seen as complete strangers in the eyes of the law.
The Legal Recognition of Same-Sex Relationships in the United States: A Social Science PerspectiveSeptember 2006Gregory M. Herek writes an up-to-date survey of social science research, and concludes that ending the exclusion of same-sex couples from marriage would benefit the couples, their kids, and society; and that as the public has a chance to consider this evidence, support for marriage equality will continue to grow.
Marriage and "Backlash": The fight is worth it7/31/06Drawing on parallels from other civil rights chapters in American history, Prof. Carlos Ball concludes that the progress made in fighting for and winning the freedom to marry outweighs the costs and "backlash" gay families have endured, inherent in any social justice struggle.
The ACLU Freedom Files - Gay & Lesbian Rights Children separated from parents, loved ones left alone to battle illness, shared property seized by the state—these scenarios may sound like the stuff of nightmares, but they're all too real for gay and lesbian families.
"Gay & Lesbian Rights" introduces you to people who are doing their best to lead ordinary lives but must fight for the rights that most Americans take for granted.
Alvin and Nigel are in the process of adopting three children from the foster care system. Because adoption law in Maryland says they both can't adopt at the same time, Alvin currently has no parental rights--and worries that he would lose the children if something were to happen to Nigel.
While Carol was ill with cancer, she and Heather had to fend off constant challenges from hospital employees about their relationship. After that, they decided to get a medical power of attorney and other legal documentation, but Heather still had to defend her right to be at her partner's side during a recent incident.
After Sam, an Oklahoma rancher, lost his longtime companion, Earl, he lost the ranch they'd shared for 23 years to distant cousins of Earl's because the state won't recognize their relationship.
This episode of The ACLU Freedom Files--which includes humorous takes on heavy issues by comedians Judy Gold and Margaret Cho--shows the harm that occurs when loving couples' relationships aren't recognized.
ABOUT THE TV SERIES The ACLU Freedom Files is a 10-part series that strips away the sound bites to reveal how civil liberties affect real people. It features real clients and the attorneys who represent them. By combining real stories and dynamic storytelling the series creates a powerful emotional effect that will motivate viewers to action. Other episodes explore issues such as the Patriot Act, Dissent, Religious Freedom and Voting Rights.
"Gay & Lesbian Rights" airs on Link TV (DIRECTV ch. 375/Dish ch. 9410) April 13 and Court TV April 15. For video footage, DVD ordering and details on TV broadcasts, go to www.aclu.tv

Same Sex Marriage News

Same-Sex Marriage Ban

Eric Minor, NEWS9 from the Web, October 6, 2006


CHARLESTON, W. Va. Oct. 5 -- It is a commercial that is hard to miss.It shows a traditional marriage ceremony in a church with a bride and a groom.But at the end, the bride’s veil is lifted to reveal a man’s face just before the couple lean in for a kiss.The real twist is that the ad calls for a constitutional amendment banning gay marriage. The advertisement ends with a voice-over narration: “Don't let liberal judges and homosexuals make a mockery of marriage.” The commercial has generated a strong response via calls and e-mails coming in to the NEWS9 newsroom. One viewer called to say he was “mortified.” Another was “disgusted” by the commercial. Some viewers saw no problem with the commercial or its message. “I do not believe men and men and women and women should be together,” one viewer told NEWS9.“I am 100 percent for banning gay marriage,” said another.The commercial was paid for by the West Virginia Family Foundation, a branch of the American Family Association.The ad is aimed at driving viewers to the Foundation’s Web site and to a petition calling for a state constitutional ban on same-sex marriage."If they wish, they may support marriage between one man and one woman and a state constitutional amendment,” said Foundation President Kevin McCoy. “We in no way promote a candidate or anything like that."McCoy told NEWS9 his group never intended to cause controversy with the advertisement.Andrew Schneider, the director of the West Virginia chapter of the American Civil Liberties Union, disputed that claim and said the ad uses shock value to encourage discrimination. “They have the right to express their viewpoint,” said Schneider. “It’s unfortunate that their viewpoint is directed toward inflaming prejudices such as excluding certain individuals from marriage.”Six years ago, West Virginia lawmakers legally defined marriage as a legal union between one man and one woman. The West Virginia Family Foundation petition suggests a constitutional amendment would have a better chance of surviving legal challenges.

What is Legal Marriage?
Legal marriage is a civil contract established through a license issued by state governments in the United States of America.
Legal marriage, more commonly referred to as civil marriage, is a contract between two individuals and the state, which is recognized socially, legally and politically at all levels of society.
Civil marriage has no impact on a religious organization's autonomy. It is therefore important to differentiate between civil marriage and religious marriage. We will use the term married to refer to persons who have entered into a legally recognized civil marriage. No clergy member of faith tradition can be forced to perform or recognize a civil marriage. However the refusal of a clergy member or faith tradition to perform or recognize a marriage has no impact on the ability of a couple to enjoy the legal rights of their civil marriage.
For a more detailed exploration of the marriage issue, you may download a copy of the Marriage Fact Sheet produced by Gay & Lesbian Advocates & Defenders. They also have other related publications.
Married couples are entitled to over 1,000 rights, benefits, privileges and responsibilities which are intended to foster the formation and stability of family, promote the well-being of children, if any, and ensure the rights of individuals when families are torn apart by death divorce, or serious illness.
A few examples may help you get a better understanding. In the event of death in a civil marriage, the surviving spouse has the automatic right to inherit even if there is no will. Gay & Lesbian couples cannot marry and do not have the automatic right to inherit their deceased spouses estate. Additionally, even if a surviving spouse in a Gay & Lesbian couple is protected by a will, there are a variety of tax issues that may result, for example, in the surviving Gay & lesbian spouse having to sell the house in which the couple lived for decades.
Another example is Social Security. Spouses of persons who have contributed to Social Security by paying FICA taxes are entitled to spousal and survivors benefits. Since same gender couples cannot get married, they are neither entitled to spousal benefits or survivors benefits even though they pay the same taxes. In addition, defined pension plans offered by employers provide benefits to the surviving spouse after the death of the retired worker. Although some companies have voluntarily extended similar benefits to same gender partners, most pension plans do not provide for the partners of retired employees. Surviving spouses of state employees are able to receive their spouse's pensions for the remainder of their life if they were legally married. By contrast surviving Gay & Lesbian spouses receive nothing in pension benefits from the state, even, if for example, the state employee was a police officer killed in the line of duty. The inevitable result of these two factors is financial insecurity unless the couple has far greater assets than the typical couple.
Marriage Rights Have Been a Struggle for Many Groups
Throughout history and even today marriage rights are an important issue for many peoples. In America marriage rights have often been limited or denied in order to discriminate against certain groups.
In America in many states, married women lost there right to contract and inherit and only men had the right to bring divorce proceedings. By the 1970s most of these inequalities had been addressed. It was not until 1967 that the Supreme Court finally struck down anti-miscegenation laws. Less well known is the fact that some states prohibited blacks and Asians from marrying at all.
Gay & Lesbian Couples and Marriage
While American social and civic institutions have an historical precedent of treating Gay & Lesbian couples less fairly, The Freedom To Marry Foundation of Massachusetts hopes to educate people on our fundamental right to form legally recognized families.
Discrimination against Gay & Lesbian couples in civil marriage unfairly denies gays and lesbians the rights and resources to secure and protect their families. It is time for equality for all Americans under the law.
Education campaigns and court cases are helping promote awareness of the issue and increasing the chances of changes in marriage laws in several states.
The Legal Struggle
Although no state has yet to legalize Gay & Lesbian marriage, substantial headway has been made as a result of a series of court challenges and victories in Alaska, Hawaii and most recently Vermont. While ballot initiatives have negated the immediate practical importance of the in Alaska and Hawaii victories, they have laid the foundation for the Vermont ruling and will hopefully serve as the basis for future rulings in other states.
In December 1999 the Vermont Supreme Court ruled that Gay & Lesbian couples were entitled to all the rights and benefits of marriage allowed under state law. The Court left it to the legislature to decide how to comply with the courts ruling. Rather than extend marriage rights to Gay & Lesbian couples the Vermont legislature created a parallel structure for same sex couples. This structure is known as Civil Unions. Civil Unions are not the same thing as marriage. They neither confer the hundreds of federal benefits associate with civil marriage and by not using the word marriage Gay & Lesbian couples are branded as something less than equal citizens. Nevertheless Civil Unions represented an enormous step forward.
You can learn more about Civil Unions at the website of Gay & Lesbian Advocates & Defenders.
The question now is not whether marriage for same gender couples will become legal but rather what state will become the first to legalize marriage for gay couples.
In 1991, three couples sued the State of Hawaii for denying civil marriage licenses to them (Baehr v. Miike). On May 5, 1993, the Hawaii Supreme Court handed the gay and lesbian community what legal experts are calling our "biggest legal victory ever." This landmark ruling, known as Baehr v. Lewin, represents the first time in American legal history that any court has ruled in favor of the idea that it is discriminatory to deny gay men and lesbians the right to marry the partner of their choice. Thus, the door to legal marriage for same-gender couples has been opened, presenting the very real possibility that same-gender couples will finally be able to enjoy the same rights and benefits taken for granted by heterosexual couples.
On December 3, 1996, Circuit Judge Kevin Chang released his ruling in Baehr v. Miike. In it, Judge Chang ruled against the state of Hawaii on almost all counts. He rejected the idea that the state can be allowed to deny marriage licenses to Gay & Lesbian couples and ordered the state to pay the litigation costs to the plaintiffs. One day later, the judge stayed his decision, pending appeal to the Hawaii Supreme Court. A court in Alaska has also found that denying same gender couples a marriage license is discrimination based on gender.
We are optimistic about the future. Although our opponents have put significant resources into opposing equal marriage rights, with each passing day more and more people are discovering that same sex couples have the same aspirations and needs as families formed by opposite-sex couples. As with so many civil right struggles before, lack of familiarity and preconceived notions have slowed the pace of change. However, in recent years the dialogue that has been created by the court cases and even the passing of anti-gay legislation has sparked a vigorous debate. Today people are interested in learning about equal marriage for Gay & Lesbian families.
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